Discipline is the Cruelest Love Language

“You can map out a fight plan or a life plan, but when the action starts, it may not go the way you planned. That’s where you separate the winners from the losers.” — Joe Frazier

I thought if I wanted it badly enough,
it would show up.

That someday
I’d wake up with clarity instead of craving,
skill instead of shame.

But desire didn’t cut the weight.
I had to drag it—
through sleep deprivation,
through mediocre mornings,
through nights I mistook for failure.

No voice from the sky.
No lightning bolt from the void.
Only small, ugly choices
stacked like bricks
under a house I didn’t even think I deserved.

Still, I built.

“You don't achieve greatness by accident, you commit to it every day.”

The myth is that greatness is found. That one day it cracks open like treasure, waiting for the worthy. But most of what looks like greatness is the aftermath of thousands of decisions no one clapped for. A thousand mornings where no one was watching, and you still got up.

The fantasy is talent. The reality is repetition. Not romantic, not epic, just consistent. You sharpen until there’s nothing left to dull. Not because it’s fulfilling. Because you said you would. And there’s something holy in …