Your Script, Your Reality π
"If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid." β Albert Einstein
"What story do you tell yourself about your worth? Be honest. Where did that script come from? How might you rewrite it to reflect your potential rather than your limitations?"
Picture this.
A kid hands in their art project, colors spilling outside the lines, an honest attempt. But the teacher frowns. βMessy,β she says. βYou need to try harder.β
The kid absorbs it, internalizes it. Messy. Not good enough. Needs to be better.
Fast-forward a decade. They hesitate before taking a risk, convinced theyβll get it wrong. That old story, long outdated but never questioned, still lingers in their head.
We donβt realize how much of our self-perception comes from hand-me-down narratives. Words from teachers, parents, peers. Offhand comments that land like seeds in fertile ground, growing into deeply rooted beliefs about what we can or canβt do, what we deserve, whatβs βrealistic.β
But hereβs the thing.
You can rewrite the script.
Not with empty affirmations or forced optimism, but with a deliberate, ruthless audit of the story you've been living.
Whose voice wrote it? Is it true? Or is it just an echo of someone elseβs limitations?
Try this:
Identify the Lie β Write down one negative belief you hold about yourself. Something you βjust knowβ to be true. (I always mess things up. Iβm not creative. People donβt really like me.)
Trace the Source β Where did it come from? Who first implied or outright said it?
Challenge It β Is it actually true? Or is it an outdated assumption?
Rewrite the Script β Take that belief and flip it. (Iβm learning through trial and error. Creativity looks different for everyone. The right people appreciate me as I am.)
Post it somewhere youβll see. Read it until it sticks. Let the new story take root.
"If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid." β Albert Einstein
Whatβs one story youβve been telling yourself for too long?
The one thatβs shaped your choices, held you back, or kept you small?
And if you could rewrite itβif you could really choose a new narrativeβwhat would it say?
Drop your thoughts below. Letβs rewrite these scripts together.
Your past is not a prophecy.
Itβs just the version of events youβve been told.
And youβright now, todayβhold the pen.
So, write something different.
Write something that tells the truth about you, not the hand-me-down fears of those who couldnβt see your full potential.
Because you are not defined by the stories of your past.
You are defined by what you choose to believe now.
So believe something better.
Until next time,
β Ryan Puusaari